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Oct 22 2018

Transitioning Made Easy with Rhythm & Metronome

There can be nothing as frustrating as having to get your over-the-top hyper child to calm down, or to motivate your tired child to his/her homework. When we need to get our child moving on to the next part of the day, it can be a challenge.
Using Rhythm, as we mentioned in last week’s vlog, is a great tool to help anchor a child, to be able to move at your desired pace.
Your child may be energized and running around, and our words just flow past them. Or your child may be groggy from sleep, and hears your instructions in a daze.
Here is a specific method for wording your instructions, and also for meeting the energy level of your child. That way, your child will find your instructions easier to listen to and to follow.

https://thethrivegroup.co/wp-content/uploads/2018/10/transitioning-rhythm-metronome.mp4

Key points from this video:

  • Giving effective instructions, the wording. 0.41
  • Example, at bedtime 0.54
  • How not to give instructions 1.00
  • Giving effective instructions, pacing your flow of words. 1.08
  • Pace of instructions to an energetic child. 1.30
  • Pace for a sleepy or slow-moving child. 2.06

Here’s another previous post with some transitioning tips that you may find helpful: Seven Ways to Help a Child Transition Smoothly.

If you would like to help your child transition easily throughout the day, we can help.
Contact us for an evaluation.

Written by Miriam Manela · Categorized: Advice, Parenting · Tagged: parenting, transitioning

Sep 25 2016

How To Achieve Your Dreams

You are obviously fueled by an intense purpose: to become a world-class mom. But what is a world-class mother? Research shows that being a perfect mother or at least our version of a perfect mother occurs only 30% of the time. It’s only a snapshot of success with a lot of behind-the-scene struggles. Many moms tend to dream big – to be that world-class mom – but find it difficult to take steps toward that dream. Some don’t even know where to start. This is especially true when a mom has to anticipate and resolve problems, especially unexpected ones.

[Read more…] about How To Achieve Your Dreams

Written by Miriam Manela · Categorized: Advice, education, How to change, How to grow, How to Relax, Moms, Organize, Plan, Relationships, Responsibility, Stress, Women · Tagged: advice, affirmation, appreciation, bonding, circulation, connection, moms, nature, parent's stress, parenting, reading, relaxing, Self-confidence, tips

Mar 04 2015

Repairing The Parent-Child Bond (For HUMAN Parents Only)

ropey-e1425421220442Have you ever felt momentarily overwhelmed, annoyed, or angry and raised your voice at your child?

If the answer is no, you are some kind of web-crawling bot, not a real-live human parent, and therefore you do not have to read any further.

For the rest of us: Every relationship, including parent-child relationships, has its ups and downs, ins and outs, and even ruptures and repairs.

One of the lessons every mom (and dad) has to learn is that it’s okay if there are occasionally times you can’t give your child what you think is best for him. Learning to accept that you are human and that you can’t give 100 percent 100 percent of the time will, in the long run, strengthen your parent-child bond.

My Patience Predicament

Last week I got a bit angry at [Read more…] about Repairing The Parent-Child Bond (For HUMAN Parents Only)

Written by Miriam Manela · Categorized: Advice, How to Relax, Moms · Tagged: advice, calming down, Miriam Manela, parenting, tips

Feb 18 2015

Signs Of Stress In Children

Roly Poly2Can you tell if your child is stressed? What does stress in children look like? Does it look different from stress in adults?

You are probably familiar with common signs of stress and anxiety in yourself: [Read more…] about Signs Of Stress In Children

Written by Miriam Manela · Categorized: Advice, Parenting, Stress, The Parent-Child Dance, Uncategorized · Tagged: children's stress, Miriam Manela, parent's stress, parenting, signs of stress

Feb 11 2015

Video: Can Demanding Children Become More Flexible?

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In this talk filmed at the Thrive OT sensory gym, occupational therapist Miriam Manela talks about helping children who have “fits” when things don’t go their way, learn to be more flexible. (Scroll down for video).

 

 

 

 

 

 

https://thethrivegroup.co/wp-content/uploads/2015/02/video-feb-07-8-40-00-pm_dvd.mp4

Written by Miriam Manela · Categorized: Advice, Behavioral Challenges, Moms, Video · Tagged: behavioral challenges, calming down, demanding child, flexibility, Miriam Manela, parenting, rigid child, temper tantrums, tips

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